A Real Incident of My Life ...

The Incident is a bit old ..its a time of two or two n half year ago .. when after schooling i was doing a teaching job in some Institute in Delhi .. I used to up-down by the private buses of the city ...

Otherwise it just a normal thing, men looking for women in buses trying to touch them .. standing over them trying to get a peep into their shirts or just in a way always trying to harass them. I m no different.

So, that day i boarded the bus again to go back to my place .. and to my surprise the bus was not so crowded .. i mean nobody was standing .. so i got up and sat on a ladies seat.

So the bus started to move on ... An a person got up in the bus in the next stand .. he could barely walk and was caring crutches with him ..bad in his appearance .. dirty clothes .. rags i should be saying .. he just came and sat besides me .. i was pretty ok about it then .

I was sitting at the window seat .. then to my surprise he started making me uncomfortable .. like he kept a hand on the rod on the seat behind me .. and just kinda getting close to me ..

I don't know the whole bus was blind or what ... bastards . no body even notice i think .. then Thank God the bus stopped at the CNG station for refilling so i got a chance to escape ..

Everyone Got down the bus and was waiting to board another bus .. then this shit person again got into the same bus as me ..and started making me feel bad ..

I was not that bold kinda person at that time .. so i could really react to this type of behavior of men ... Then A guy next to me ( I refer to him as Mr. A ) who looked like a student.. quite fine looking person .. not more than 20 years old asked me :

A: Do you know this person ??
I: No, i don't. ( with a tense expression on my face ).
A: Stand On this side.( And i quickly shifted myself to the other side of Mr A
in the bus .)

And then that shit person didn't get hold of me .. Thank God.(I think Mr A was in the Last bus also, and he saw him making me uncomfortable.)

After sometime i got a seat in the bus again .. i sat down .. Mr. A also got a seat in the front .. so we really didn't chatted about anything .. I don't know even his name ... I was just not feeling well that day .. Asking the name thing didn't even struck me then ..I don't know .. why i was so lost .

While Getting off the Bus .. He came towards the back door of the bus to get down .. and said to me :: "NEXT TIME BE BOLD !! " :)

That was a greatest ever thing for me ... Hey Mr A Thankzz for your help .. I really I m Glad that you helped me in a great way to realise myself . .to what i should be .. and what i shouldn't be ..

Keep smiling and may God Bless you ... And you all too who are reading this :)


PS:: Will be Writing About more of my Life soon .. :)

Different perceptions.....

Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison.

A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, ‘Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? ‘Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, ‘The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?’ Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, ‘How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.’ The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, ‘Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.’ Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, the moral of the story is that:

Learn to think for your self and nevermind what others think. Do not be too bothered by others words if your own conscience is clear….

Our Lives .. in Present Past and ... Future ...

So here i M back with a bang !!!.. today i m feeling like talking a bit about life .. my life your life ... our lives ...

I was out of station for a last couple of days ... and it was a spiritual kind of journey for me .. not those Spiritual camps like .. but it was like leaning something new out of the being .. so i was just delighted to share some things with you all also. I hope you will like them ..

i learnt many things and one was to be in the PRESENT.

it is like we never notice that when ever we are in sorrow .. we are in PAST .. thinking about things which has already happened at some point of time and when we remember them we feel sorry for ourselves .. and think like we are just good for nothing .. Did you Notice those all the things that bring sorrow to you are from the PAST and PAST only ??? I mean Things in present moment cant bring sorrow to you .. neither things in the future..



Going to the FUTURE ... how many fears do we have in our daily lives ?? fear to pay the loan installment on time .. fear to reach school on time ... fear to attend the interview and perform to the best ??..... These Fears only Exist in The FUTURE .. and doesn't even exist in the Present .. So why Worry ?:)

It was just a thought of mine ... I don't really want to make this any more of boring stuff :) Thankzz for reading ... will be Writing about some of my thoughts again :)cyaa ... share your thoughts .. about how you felt after reading it !!